I’m so glad you asked that question because this is a topic that I can relate to a lot. You’re right that exclusivity is a good thing. There is a lot of pressure that is placed on relationships by society, and it is a good thing to not put pressure on a relationship. I’d like to think that we have the freedom to be who we are most comfortable with in our relationship without necessarily having to be with someone else.
I know this sounds a little bit like a cliche, but when you’re in a relationship, you should always be looking for the best way to express yourself. If you can find a way to do your personal thing without compromising your partner’s, thats great. If you can find that balance, great. But if you can’t, it’s not going to last.
In my opinion, my personal philosophy on relationships is that there are two types of relationships: (1) a healthy relationship, and (2) a relationship with my heart. I feel that I should always be happy in any relationship that I have because I love and respect people. However, I also believe that a healthy relationship can be the best relationship of my life, but it’s also the best and most fulfilling relationship if I know that I can have it with anyone.
First off, there’s no such thing as exclusive. In fact, my relationship with my wife is only exclusive in that she’s the only woman I’ve ever had and I love her. There’s nothing exclusive about that. What I mean by exclusive is that my wife is the only women I’ve ever met, kissed, and made love with, and I’ll take her over any other woman who has ever been with a man to put it that way.
I’m not sure what you mean by “exclusive.” If you mean that there’s something exclusive about having a wife, I can guarantee you that you won’t be in the same relationship for very long. But if you mean that there are only two women in your life, then that’s true.
It was a while before I realized that I was the only female in my life. I had dated three or four women before I met my wife, and when I finally met her, we were engaged. I mean, obviously there were many other women in my life, but even so, that was enough for me. I was never exclusive with my wife. She’s the only woman Ive ever kissed, made love with, or even kissed.
I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but exclusivity is a tricky thing. For me, it’s more about the person who you truly care about. I know that I would never want to be exclusive with anybody else. I want to be with someone who is the closest to me in terms of personality. Someone who you can share all of your joys and struggles with. And that’s why I always put it off.
One of the reasons I have a hard time letting go is because I do care about my wife. I know that our relationship is important to her, and I want her to have a better life than she has now. But I also want her to know that even though I love her, I wont always be there to protect her. I just don’t want her to have to worry about me.
Because my wife has a hard time letting go, she sometimes holds on to her ex. While she is still alive, she would rather spend her time worrying about him than worrying about her life. Sometimes she will even go as far as to try to put herself in his shoes. Thats what I mean when I say that I dont want her to have to worry about me.
Thats definitely a good way to describe your marriage. When a man and a woman both want you to worry about them, they are holding on to the notion that you are their safety net. But if you dont care about them, then you really do not care about them.