What I noticed when I talked to my husband is that when I was in the zone and I was doing whatever I wanted, it was usually with him as a “go”. But if I was in the zone but he didn’t want to be there, or if I wasn’t feeling it and he didn’t want to be there, I would find that I wasn’t in the zone. Then I would feel frustrated.
The feeling that comes with not being in the zone can be very frustrating. For example, someone who is in a serious relationship doesn’t want their partner to take their side of an argument, so they often keep that part of their relationship to themselves. But what they’re really doing is feeling that they have their own opinion and not allowing the other person to have theirs. They’re not really feeling the zone, but the zone is feeling them.
Sometimes even in serious relationships, people don’t realize they are in the zone. It’s like a feeling of separation from real life. Sure you’re still in the same room, but you feel youre in a different place and you don’t know exactly where your partner is. It’s hard to explain this, so I’ll just say it’s a weird feeling.
This is a great example of this. Ive been in serious relationships where it comes down to who I dont like to be with. My ex and I were both having a really bad day and just stopped speaking for a bit. Not a big deal. But it was clear to me that it was not going to be good for us to be together. I felt that this was an issue that we needed to work out, but we never did.
I can see this happening. In your relationship, you are having a hard time figuring out what you want from your partner. You’re trying to figure out what you want in your life, and you can’t. And you just feel like your partner is not doing the same. Maybe you want to go on a trip to Spain this summer. Maybe you want to spend the whole summer together. But when you ask, they say “no”.
Asking, “can we go on a trip this summer?” is almost always a really bad idea. If you want to go on a trip together, go out to the beach. Or go to the ocean. If you want to spend the whole summer together, go do something together. But you’re not going to do anything together if you ask them to go to the beach or to the ocean.
If you want to just go out and have fun, go do something together. But if you really want to spend the whole summer together, find a way to spend the whole summer together. There are some really amazing things that can happen when you do that. For example, the whole time you spend together you could be making the life-saving decision to go to the beach or to go to the ocean.
If you want to do something that makes you feel like youre part of a group, go do something together. But don’t ask them to go to the beach or to the ocean, if you want to just go out and have fun, go do something together. But if you really want to spend the whole summer together, find a way to spend the whole summer together. There are some really amazing things that can happen when you do that.
This is probably my least favorite part of the article. But as we all know, the part about making the most out of summer is the most important. So here’s a hint: The next time you’re stuck on a beach, get to it together.
The summer is coming to an end. If you don’t want to spend the summer together or at least spend the summer together in a way that makes you both very happy, then why not start with a beach. You could meet up for a sunset or an evening sail on a boat or both. You could start to spend the summer like that.