If you’re in a relationship, you’re probably trying to be as loving as you can be, but you’re also trying to be really aware of what you’re doing and how much you’re doing. Do you know why that is? It’s because you’re trying to be the best person you can be.
A really loving person doesn’t try that hard, does he? But if they really wanted to be the best person they can be, they would never make a mistake. Instead, they would make sure that they always keep their actions consistent and their actions look like they care.
Sometimes this may sound like a good thing, but a lot of the time it can actually be too much. Sure, we all want to be the best we can be, but it can get a bit boring if you constantly have to prove yourself. In a relationship, you have to be willing to try a lot of different things in order to show your other person you care, so that they can see that you care.
Sometimes the best way to show your other person that you care is to show them every little step you take. It doesn’t matter whether you’re taking a test, showing off your skills, or just hanging out with your friends. Making just one mistake that they might not see is just as much of a fail as them knowing you care and making it a priority to take extra steps to prove you care.
Sometimes being too hard to win a friend is just as bad as being too hard to lose a friend. It doesnt matter whether youre trying to win over a person who thinks youre only for sex or a person who doesnt think youre worth that kind of friendship. Even if youre trying to win over a person who just thinks youre worth sex, you need to show that you care.
I think this is especially true in relationships, and in relationships where both parties are trying too hard to get ahead. This is especially true when one of the parties is trying to prove something to the other.
For example, when you’re trying to impress a person who can make you feel good about yourself, you can’t show your true feelings. You cant be seen by them, and you cant make them feel good about themselves. You need to stay in the background and keep to yourself.
When you try too hard to impress your partner, you can forget to show them how good you are. You can be a bit “over-the-top” (or whatever you want to call it) and not be able to help them see the real you. This can prevent them from feeling good about themselves, and in turn, can prevent them from feeling good about you.
In the end, you can’t make someone feel good about themselves just by being yourself, you can only make them feel good about themselves by showing them what they are. You can only help them by showing them you are the real you.
In an essay called “I Wish I Could Turn You into a Man,” author, actor, and comedian Will Ferrell talks about this phenomenon, saying, “I wish I could turn you into a man, or at least a better version of yourself.