We all have a sb relationship, where we are always thinking about ourselves. You may not realize it, but when you’re getting started in any relationship, you’re always thinking about what you’re doing, how you’re feeling, what you’re eating, and who you’re with.
That’s not a bad thing, because sb relationships can be good too. If you’re always thinking about each other, then you’re not giving yourself time to focus on anything else. This way, you’re more likely to come up with really good ideas, or at least ones that you can execute.
The problem with this is that sb relationships are only for those who like to play ’em up. The real reason you have sb relationships is to get away from reality and into other things. For instance, if youve ever found yourself in a situation where you’re always talking to someone and it doesnt seem like youre doing the talking, well, thats a sb relationship.
I like sb relationships. They give you a sense of comfort, and they dont take you down into your own head so much.
For the same reason, Im not a fan of sb relationships. The whole point is to not spend your time with someone you dont like. Its a bit like dating someone who tells you the best way to kill your grandmother. I cant help but feel like im being taken advantage of.
I dont know if its a sb relationship or a dating relationship, but I have yet to meet a person I didnt like. I have met a lot who I didnt like, but I dont think I would call them a sb relationship because, like I said, there is no intimacy in it.
In my opinion, if the two of you are not comfortable with each other then the best thing you can do is not date each other.
I have talked to a lot of people online and even meet some on a regular basis. I do feel like I know them well enough to not be taken advantage of, but from my experience, I have met new people that I have a lot of respect for.
Just as an aside, I have met a few people that I think are a lot like me in that we have difficulty taking criticism. Although we may not be as loud or as outspoken as some people, I have never had a bad experience with someone I felt I could trust.
If you want to know what people think of you, you should just ask them, and you won’t get the kind of honest truth that comes from a direct, unsolicited email. You will get a lot of “I don’t know” and “I guess” and “I’ll have to think about it”, and that’s not always a good sign.