For me, I’ve always been a little surprised and delighted when I’ve noticed that my relationships have been anything but a one-sided affair. For many years, I have felt like my boyfriends were my best friends, and my friends have always been my boyfriends. That’s not to say that they weren’t always my best friends, but it was always interesting to see how they carried out their best friendship.
Thats not to say that Ive never had a “best friend” in my life, but Ive always felt a little hurt when Ive seen them get in my face and call me on it, or treat me like a bitch.
I know that the term best friend is hard to wrap your mind around, but in my book it means that two people are the best at a friendship. It doesn’t have to be a big-time flameout either, but a level of friendship that you can’t get more of than 2 people in your life.
Sam Ighan is one of my favorite characters. I can see why Sam would have felt a little hurt by their friendship, but he also understood that they werent in it for romantic reasons. They werent out to cheat on each other, but they werent out to get each other.
Yes. This is Sam Ighan. But like any other friendship, it doesn’t have to last forever. The two of them have a lot of fun together, but they also have a lot of fun fighting. They’ve had plenty of battles and are always ready to knock each other out, but they never do.
The main problem with Sam and Sam is that they arent in it for the long haul. They dont have time for a long-term relationship. When youre just getting to know each other, you dont think about the possibility of getting together for a long time. If they did, then their friendship would be over a long time ago. They dont have that kind of time.
This is an obvious thing, but I think most of us are aware that when it comes to dating, you dont think about the long-term. It really doesnt matter. If youre a guy, you dont think about it. If youre a girl, you dont think about it. That’s why it has always been the case that girls dont get in a long-term relationship with guys.
I have dated women that I thought would be great long-term couples. But they never were. So, even if the idea of dating someone you like is totally romantic, you can’t do it. Not really. Not if you don’t think about it.
I think it is because guys don’t think about their long-term relationship plans. They just think about all the things they want to do with their lives, their families, etc. So they dont think about the person they’ll be with for the foreseeable future.
For most couples, the thought of an actual future together is a distant memory. That’s okay though, because your actual life is a lot more important than you think. That’s why a lot of people are choosing to live their lives without a commitment.