I’m sure you have all seen the quote “what you say doesn’t always match what you do.” It is a commonly held opinion that we should never lie to ourselves about what we are doing. Our intentions and our behavior are often a reflection of our self-awareness.
I think it is a little harder to get into a relationship when you are lying about how you are doing the things you are doing, because you are going to end up feeling guilt and shame about what you are doing. It is also a little harder to break up a relationship when you are lying to yourself when you say you are going to do something. But you need to realize that lying to ourselves can be a very effective way of getting out of a bad situation.
I don’t know about you, but I’ve had to lie to myself a couple of times. Once, in college, when I was trying to get a better job and I was not making what I thought I was. I just kept telling myself I was going to get a better job, until I finally realized that I was right but didn’t want to admit it.
I got into a big fight with my first girlfriend at the time. She was the one who tried to get me to be more honest and stop lying to myself. She said to me that if I didnt know I was lying to myself, I was lying to her. I didnt understand at the time that this was true. I also remember one time that I was going to go on a date that I thought was going to be a good thing.
One night I went on a date with a girl and we had a great time until I told her I had a girlfriend and I was gonna break up with her. She wasnt happy about it and tried to make me feel bad about it. After that I dont really think I ever had a girlfriend.
Sometimes you’ll see things that bother you, and you’re told that if you don’t take action, it will come back to you. But if you’re honest with yourself, you probably won’t ever have that problem.
I have no problem with breaking up with someone. I have no problem with having a girlfriend, I have no problem with going out on a date, and I have no problem with ending up in a relationship. But there are times when you have to decide if it’s best to go with the flow and end up losing someone. I have no problem with relationships for the reasons that you probably already know. If you want a relationship, it is probably a good idea.
But if you’re in a relationship, then there are times when you don’t.
If you’re in a relationship, you might decide to end your relationship or you might decide to try to make a relationship work. Either way, you might end up feeling really miserable. When you’re in a relationship, you might feel so miserable that you decide to end it and go find someone else. If you do that you’re probably going to end up feeling really shitty about yourself.
I’m assuming that youre writing this comment while youre in a relationship that you think you might have to end. If so, then you probably have a choice to make. You can walk away from your current relationship, or you can try to make your relationship work.