We have a tendency to think that when we are in a relationship, we have to be better, stronger, or more important than when we are not in a relationship. But the truth is that our relationships aren’t a competition or a war. They’re a partnership.
We are all in relationship to each other, but we all have different motivations, and our relationship goals are different. For example, I may be in a long term sexual relationship with someone, which is a relationship to be strengthened in and for the sake of it. They’re not my first, nor are they my last. I may also be in a romantic relationship with someone who wants to spend more time with me (which I find extremely attractive), but that’s their relationship too.
I could just be in a long term relationship with someone who likes to read, or who loves to cook, or who is in a romantic relationship with someone with whom I have a more stable relationship. There are a number of reasons why I might not be in such a relationship these days, but I dont think I could answer any of those questions for myself.
I’m sure you could, since you’re a writer. However in some cases, like if that someone wants us to become more than friends, I think that might not be possible. I’m also sure you could point to a lot of reasons to explain why I’m wrong… I’ve just never met a person who really liked my writing and the kind of relationship I have with a writer.
You could point to a huge number of reasons to explain why I might not be the great guy/gal/whatever you want me to be or how I don’t seem to be in a relationship, but I think that would be really subjective. The best way to sum it up is this: My lack of a relationship is a good reason to not move in with you. Or at least, that’s what I’ve heard.
I think my relationship with my writing is a good reason to move in with you.
I think this is true. If you’ve ever been in a relationship, you probably have some good reasons why you should do it… but my experience doesn’t give me a ton to go on. I know I don’t make the best partner for my friends, but I do think that I have the most fun when I’m with them.
It is true that people who are in relationships often have better relationships than people who aren’t. It’s also true, though, that when you’re in a relationship, there are a bunch of things you have to be careful of. Like, you have to be careful of your partner’s feelings.
Im not sure where I stand on this one. I know that if I were to get into a relationship, I might want to focus more on my own feelings. But I also have a lot of friends in my life, so I dont really want to be the one to tell them if they dont feel the same way about me. My boyfriend is a very smart, successful man. He is very supportive of me.
My boyfriend is very supportive of me. But since I dont know what to put on this list myself, I thought I would give it a shot. So if youre in a relationship, you should be aware of all the pros and cons of this relationship.
