It seems as if we hear ourselves saying a lot of things that are so hard to deal with. We worry about how the other person will feel when we see them, how they’ll respond, how their parents will react, whether they’ll go through the same things we did, how they’ll be with their children, and we talk about our dreams and fears with anyone we talk to or about.
It’s not that there’s anything wrong with talking about our fears; it’s just that we don’t deal with it all the time. It’s actually quite easy to control our feelings when we know they’re not real. We often just act on our fears instead of confronting them.
This is where relationship fears come into play. In general, the greater the number of people in a relationship with whom you do not interact, the greater the chance you will encounter one of these kinds of feelings. In our group, we have had our fair share of these kinds of anxieties, and we have dealt with them honestly, because we realized how damaging they can be, as well as how easy they are to suppress with just a little communication.
In every relationship there are people who will always be there. People who are there for you and who really love you. If you need help, they will be there for you. If you need to talk, they will be there to listen. If you need to do something, they will be there for you. They will be there on some level, whether it be in a friend’s life or in your own life.
The problem is when we feel like we don’t know what we need and when we don’t know if we want them or not. We feel like if we don’t have them, they won’t be there for us. That’s why the best relationships take place within the context of communication.
This is why I love that even though we live in a world full of people who want us to do things, we dont really need them. We dont need your money to make sure you have a nice house or to buy a new car. We dont need to be your slave to make sure you’re happy. We dont need your support to feel fulfilled. We may not know what we need, but they will be there for us and we will feel like we do.
That’s the beauty of relationships. We feel more fulfilled when we can see the other person’s point of view. A relationship has so many aspects that we only come to understand when we are with the other person. It’s not just about sex or food, it’s about what makes us connect with the other person, what makes them tick, and how we can make them feel.
The relationships we feel in the beginning, and the ones we feel when we are in our early twenties are very different from the ones we feel in our thirties. I’m not saying that its all roses and rainbows, but there are some things that are just unavoidable. I wouldn’t describe my relationship with my wife as the best ever, but I think it is the best I’ve ever felt and I hope that the same will be true for you.
The way we talk about the relationship and what we talk about about it matters. I dont think many people are willing to admit that their first kiss was the best first kiss ever, but many people do say they werent drunk then or at least didn’t have a drink in hand when they kissed. Regardless, the importance of what we say and how we say it matters more than anything. We talk about our significant others, what makes them tick, and how we can make them feel.
We say a lot about our significant others, but the way we say it matters a lot more than the way we actually do it. If you are in a relationship, you are probably thinking about how you want your partner to feel at the moment you say it. I mean, it’s not really fair to expect that you will be able to do everything he wants you to do, so you should probably be a little more mindful of how you say things when you’re in a relationship.