I have been seeing a lot of couples who have been together for many years that just have a lot of problems with communication. They are not getting along, they are not living their lives, and they don’t seem to understand each other’s needs. It seems that there are so many things that they want but they aren’t talking about. They seem to think they know what the other person needs and what they want, but they don’t.
You are right that many couples who have been together for a long time and share many interests don’t seem to have the same problems. It’s possible that they are just not communicating in the right ways, but it seems like it would be a lot more complicated if they were.
There are people who are so in love that they do not talk about the things that make them happy. I am always amazed at my own insecurities and how I seem to be oblivious of them. This is so common and I have never known anyone who was this honest in their relationships. Why would anyone want to be dishonest about something so important? We all have our insecurities and it’s one of the biggest reasons why we have trouble talking about our feelings.
I just read an article in the NY Times about this exact subject. It reported that of the people who get married, a whopping 85% of the people who are married say that the person they marry is their life-long partner.
A lot of this comes down to the fact that we aren’t taught how to interact with each other on an interpersonal level. We aren’t taught to interact with other people as an equal in any way and we aren’t taught how to communicate about our feelings. We’re taught to be “cool” and “controlling.” We are taught to be “assertive” and “strong.” These are all things that we’re taught that we don’t need.
The fact is that we arent taught that relationships need to lead to marriage. We are taught that relationships are defined as a “tough love,” where the person you love is a person you love for a lifetime. The last thing we should be doing is defining our relationship as “something that will last for life.
I think that we arent taught to be assertive or strong. I think that we are taught to be cool and controlling. We are taught that relationships need to lead to marriage. I think that we are taught to be assertive and strong.
People who are assertive are assertive because they are confident in their ability to say yes or no. People who are cool are cool because they have no fear of being wrong. People who are assertive and cool are often less able to be assertive and cool when their partner is not assertive and cool. And that is why relationships need to lead to marriage. It’s not because your partner is a monster. It’s not because you are a perfect match.
The problem in relationships is that they are often too easy. People get attached to other people as much as they get attached to their possessions. And the more possessions you have, the less likely you are to be able to be assertive and cool.
The problem is that with possessions, you are basically locked into a relationship with your possessions. That’s a problem because you want to be assertive and cool in your relationships, but it’s just not possible until you get rid of your possessions.
