When you’re in a relationship, you can either be totally consumed by the other person or completely oblivious to it. If you’re the latter, you can be in the midst of a rebound relationship and not even know it. The key is figuring out what you’re doing about the rebound and what you can do about it.
In the game, you are just a couple of days out from your first date, and youre both at your best friends’ place for a drink. The night before, you have a great conversation with your crush, and then you both go to your buddy’s place to party. The next morning, however, your crush is gone, your buddy is gone, and you both are missing a vital component of the conversation.
You see, this is a problem because in order to enjoy the most out of a rebound relationship, you need to make a habit out of talking to your crush on a regular basis. So how do you find out who your crush is without actually meeting them? Well, the answer is pretty simple. You go online and look, and you see that your crush is online. Of course you do. You probably already read an article about your crush on Facebook or on your friend’s profile.
As it turns out, your crush is just a regular, boring person who happens to have an interest in the same things you do. You might be the same way, but that’s about it.
The problem is that this is a completely normal thing to do, but it just sort of makes things harder. Because if you meet your crush online, you are going to have to ask them to meet you. Or you have to do it online, and wait for them to respond. The problem is that the chances of your crush getting a response in a timely manner are slim. If you meet anyone at all, the chances of them responding within a few days are near zero.
This is what happens when you spend too much time on the internet. You meet someone, you hang out, and then it’s like you never even knew they were there in the first place. When you meet people at a party you’re invited to, there is little or no chance that they will ever remember, or care about you. If you meet them at a bar, the chances of them remembering you are next to zero.
I have met many people at bars who are just not the person you think they are. They have no idea what youre like. They have no clue what makes you tick. I have met so many people who have come from such a young age, yet they still think they know what youre like. They don’t know what makes you tick. They dont even know why youre there.
I used to hear people say that their partner was a jerk. So I decided to write a little piece to prove them wrong. I called them “recurring partners.” The concept is the most basic and simple: a recurring partner is someone who spends time with you and then leaves you, only to come back and spend some more time with you before he/she leaves you again. It is a concept that I feel is important.
So what is a recurring partner? Are these people always there when you need them? Are they always there when you need them? I think it is the exact opposite. When youre with your partner you are not thinking about him or her. You are thinking about yourself. Theyre not your only friend in life. Theyre not your only lover. Theyre not your only love interest. Theyre not anywhere else.
I’m not a big fan of the concept of a recurring lover. I think it’s a red herring to the point that it’s a meaningless concept in that it can easily be replaced. But when it’s not, then I think it’s a good idea to keep reminding ourselves that we’re all unique individuals who can only find each other through our relationships.