I’m not here to bash the idea of praying for a new relationship, but I do want to make it clear that “breakdown” is not the right word. I’m talking about the broken relationship that is so common in our culture, and that can be broken in so many different ways. When we talk about broken relationships, we’ll talk about relationships that were strained or even broken at some point in the past.
I want to make it clear that I do not think the broken relationship should always be broken in the first place. I am not saying that all broken relationships are bad, but that it is completely possible for someone to have a broken relationship. For example, someone who has just broken up with a person they were in a committed relationship with was probably not in the best place to look for love.
I understand that a broken relationship is a very personal thing. Not only can it be a problem for the person who broke the relationship, but it can also be extremely hurtful to the people that have a broken relationship with the person who has broken up with them. So if I’m a person who is in a relationship with someone and he or she breaks up with me, my first instinct is to pray for restoration of the relationship.
This is a very personal thing, but it isn’t just the broken relationship that is hurting. There’s also the fact that people break up with each other for a number of reasons. A bad breakup can be very hurtful to the individuals involved. Whether it’s a breakup that you don’t talk to anymore or someone breaking up with you for someone else’s fault, a breakup will hurt a lot.
One of my friends, who I met in college, has been in a very bad breakup. She has had no contact with her family since she broke up with him a year ago. She had spent months with him and they had been dating for over a year. At the time of their breakup he had recently left his wife and moved out. She has been trying to contact him and he hasnt answered her phone calls. He has been calling her to see if she is okay.
We all go through breakups in one way or another. The way I see it, we are all in a relationship with a breakup. And, if you can’t talk to your ex, then you have no one. There is nothing to discuss and you are forced to deal with your broken heart.
That is how I see it. I am not claiming that I know what happened or what was going through the mind of each of the people involved. I am only trying to describe it. Sometimes a breakup can be a blessing in disguise. It can lead to a fresh start for both parties. And sometimes it is a total nightmare. This is the reason why I am so passionate about the work I do.
The idea behind prayer is that there is one person who has the power to restore broken relationships. If you can speak to that person, then you can break the spell, and you can start over again. I get that a lot of people don’t like talking to their exes when they’re not ready to forgive them.
The key to any relationship, especially one that has been broken, is communication. It’s not necessarily the “right” way to do things, but it is the most likely way. My clients have asked me about prayer and I have explained the idea, but I also think the concept is very powerful. There are many reasons that a breakup doesn’t work out, but there is one thing that I have found that is the most common.
Most breakups are not the result of a lack of faith, but rather the result of not communicating with each other. It doesn’t matter if there was a physical break-up, a verbal one, or an emotional one. Regardless of the reason, what we have to do is communicate, and for most of us it’s probably not enough.
