To be honest, we’d be considered more of a “co-dependent” relationship than a “dependent” one if we weren’t dependent on our parents for so much of our life. But, like all other relationships, there are ups and downs. Most of the time, I’ve learned that my attitude and behaviors are important to my parents, but they are still not the only things that are important to us.
I mean, it’s been a year since I’ve been in a loving relationship, and I’m still not sure what to do about it. I’ve even been toying with the idea of asking my parents to get a divorce and living a more independent life, but I still feel a little hurt and confused by the idea. Like, “Who are you kidding? They’re not gonna know what to do about your relationship.
You are not asking your parents to get a divorce. You are asking them to be your best friend. I mean, my parents have been my biggest support throughout my life and I know they would like nothing more than to have my best friend back again.
I totally understand your feelings. I can see how they would feel hurt and confused if they didnt know exactly what to do about it. But I dont have any idea what to expect. When I told my parents that I wanted a divorce, I would have assumed that they would be shocked and disgusted with what I had done. I would have thought they would be a little confused and upset that Ive even asked out their daughter.
But I assure you that there is no more surprising, or shocking, or shocking to me than the shocked and disgusted look they gave me when I called them to tell them what had happened. I was not expecting this to happen. This is the part when I tell you all of this. Ive been through a lot in my life, and Ive been through a lot in theirs, and theyve been through a lot in mine, and we ve all been through a lot of shit.
It’s not just my relationship with my son, but with any parent that has a daughter. I was not expecting this, although I knew it was going to happen. The fact that it happened to me just sort of blew me away.
How can you not feel like you’ve been through a lot? I don’t really know the answer. I think it’s because it’s a small part of our life. But it’s not just the stuff that happens to us, it’s the stuff that happens to us that makes us who we are. When we see something that we want, we want to keep it. We want to protect it.
The thing that makes us who we are is the stuff that happens to us. And when that happens, we lose control, and we are left with little control. In our relationship with my son, we can’t even be sure what we are doing is working, because we are often so completely out of control and out of touch with ourselves that we make things worse. I have no idea how we could possibly have anything good that has happened under those circumstances.
At the same time, I feel like we are in an incredibly fortunate position. On the one hand, I want my son to be the kind of person who is able to love and protect his family with a heart. On the other hand, I want my son to be able to love and protect himself without the help of his family. I want him to be able to love and protect himself and others.
I just want to feel safe. That’s the problem. I feel like we are in a pretty good position. In a lot of ways, the good news is that we’re growing up and we’re learning how to be responsible. But the bad news is that we still don’t know how to love ourselves and others. We still have so much to learn, so much to grow, and so many things that we need to get clear on.