Most of us have a narcissistic relationship cycle. It begins with our ego and our self-esteem. We then get swept up in our own thoughts, feelings, and ideas. With our ego, we try to feel “special” or “more important” than everyone else. This ego-centric behavior causes us to feel superior to others.
In the narcissistic relationship cycle, we feel that we are a special, special person who has it all together, but it’s really all of us that are so special. The selfish, negative relationships with other people in our lives are not in our control and can, and often do, lead to our suffering.
In narcissistic relationships, the person who believes they are special is in fact the person who is the cause of the suffering. In other words, the person who feels that they have it all together is only the person who is suffering. The person suffering is the person who is in pain.
A person who is suffering from narcissistic relationships is a person who does not have the capacity to love and to make a relationship great. If one is in pain, one is in pain. I’m not an expert in this area, but I would strongly suggest that one look at what are the core symptoms of narcissistic relationships, and see what that might be.
We are talking about a relationship that is not good. A good relationship will include: sharing experiences, mutual respect, and intimacy. If one is not in a good relationship, it’s because of the other person’s lack of capacity to be in a good relationship.
I’m not saying this is a bad relationship, but one that is not the ideal type of relationship. Being in a relationship with one’s self is an important skill that can lead to a lot of positive outcomes. It can lead to being able to take care of yourself, and help someone else do the same for you. It can lead to being able to make plans for the future, or work with someone else to help them with their plans.
All of this sounds great, but if you want to be in a great relationship, it’s really not easy. Just ask the average person. People don’t like it when their partners don’t care about them. They think it’s weird that the one person is the only one who does anything that is important to them.
I’ve been in long-term monogamous relationships where the other partner didn’t have their own life. I’ve been in other long-term monogamous relationships where the other partner was the one who had their own life. They were the only ones who did anything that was important to them.
In our own relationships, we tend to have a lot of narcissistic tendencies, especially as the years go by. Like the person we love doesn’t care about us or is unimportant. We can go days without talking to our partner, or we can go weeks with no communication at all. We can be a bit too selfish or a bit too narcissistic, or just plain weird.
That’s why it’s so important to recognize that you have a narcissistic and self-centered partner. I have no idea why this is the case in our lives, but it is. If you’re a narcissist, you have a lot of time and energy to waste on yourself. If you don’t, you waste a lot of energy on other people. It can be difficult to admit it when you do have these issues, but admitting it can help you get more clarity and less pain.