I’m a young single woman in her late 20’s who has been dating a man for almost a year. He recently started asking me out on a regular basis, and I didn’t know what to do. I am a total free spirit, and I love being on my own, so I let him do all the talking. It sounds like something straight out of a movie, but in reality it’s just a lot of nonsense.
I’m sure you’re aware by now that when people get together they tend to talk a lot. This is partly because people tend to be more open about their feelings, but also because talking is a lot easier when you’re not the one with the problem. It’s like in a movie when the two characters are in a car together and they’re both trying to talk about the same thing.
The thing is, I do need to talk to you. I know you have feelings for me, and I know that we have things that we need to work out on our own. I just don’t know how to do it. I try to approach you as a friend, but I’m afraid I dont know how to get you to do what I need without just talking.
Like I said, I need to work on my communication skills. I am in a very good situation where I can talk to you and get you to do what I need without having to talk. I feel like we dont know each other very well, and I need to work on that. I really appreciate that you feel like we get along, and I am glad that I feel like we are getting along.
I don’t know how to get you to make me a better person. I feel like I have done it for so many years, but I don’t know what to do. You do everything for me, yet I feel like I am always feeling like I am not doing anything for you. You are more important to me than I am to you. I want to be a better person for you, not just a better person for myself.
I think that my relationship with you is good. I just don’t know how to make it better. I don’t know what to do about it, and I don’t know what the cause is. I know I have let you down, and I know what I can do to fix it, but I feel like I am the problem.
Maybe you’re feeling like you’re letting him down. Maybe you’re feeling like you’re trying to fix things that aren’t broken. Maybe you’re blaming yourself for not being able to do everything better for him. Maybe you’re feeling like a bad friend is making it hard for you to be friends with him. Maybe he’s not ready to be friends with you, or even be in your life. Maybe you’re just tired of feeling like you’re always the one that is let down.
I feel like the biggest thing I can do is be honest and open about my feelings. I have been through so many painful experiences with my boyfriend through my relationships with him, and I can honestly say now that I am in no way trying to fix things and move on. I am just trying to accept that we both have issues that need to be resolved, and that I will always be there for him.
I could have said it this time, but I’m sure it would have come across as needy. I’m just telling you what I’m seeing, and if you feel as if I have just become more needy than I actually am, you’re probably right.
I know you’re not saying this to be judgmental, but you seem to be so concerned with your own feelings that you haven’t even bothered to respond to any of these other responses. If you feel that way, then I wish you all the best. I wish you all the best too. I feel that you are truly a good person and hope that you will find someone who can truly love you and not let you grow up so fast. You could always become a therapist.
