You know what’s funny? This is exactly what I am talking about. I feel like I can have this conversation with my husband anytime I want. He can be anywhere, and I can be anywhere. He can be with me if he wants, or anywhere else I want.
That’s actually the best way to talk to your husband. Being a stay-at-home Mom is stressful. As you would think, there are many of the typical stresses that come with being a Mom, but no matter what, we all need to relax. It’s actually my favorite part of the day. I love coming home to my husband, and he loves coming home to me.
When I was in my mid-forties I moved in with my husband and children. We rarely had to worry about money, food, or bills. It was just the routine of our life. Then my husband decided to start work on a side hustle. It was quite a bit of struggle for us to get things done and keep ourselves in check. The rest of the family and friends didn’t understand why he quit his job while our financial situation was so dire.
The problem was that his hustle was taking up a lot of his time. In fact he started to work out of our home and the couple time-loops we had were starting to get to him. He would be working late at night, and we would be working all day. It was exhausting. It was really bad for my marriage because it took a lot out of me. I knew he was doing it for me, but I wanted to make it work for him.
So as a result, we ended up having to find a way to work around some of the time-loops. I had been talking to him about it, but I couldn’t figure it out. So I decided to have a new habit and I started a new habit that’s a time loop.
So once I started this habit, I had to make it work for his time-loop. I had to make him get up and leave the bed. I had to make him take a shower. I had to make him get dressed. I had to make him feed himself. I had to make him get ready. I had to make him eat dinner. I had to make him go to the bathroom. I had to make him drink his drink.
To make him miss me, I had to let him go to the bathroom and take my clothes off. The main issue is that it takes a long time for him to be fully awake. He is still asleep in his bed, so he can still be in the loop without having to move. But the less movement he makes, the more time it takes. So really you need to just let him go to the bathroom and turn the light on for him.
The best way to make him miss you is to let him eat dinner without you being there. If he’s still asleep, then he’ll just start to eat. If you come in and wake him up, he’ll stop because he knows how much pressure you are under. So you need to not only tell him you are coming in, but you need to let him know you are going to be there for him.
In case you don’t know, when you want your husband to miss you you have to talk to him. If you tell him you are coming in to check up on him, then you need to give him the opportunity to ask you what you are doing. If you tell him you are just going to leave and that you are not going to stop checking up on him, then you have to give him the chance to tell you that he is upset and that you need to talk to him.
Your husband is you’s most important relationship, and if you’ve never been able to really communicate how important you are to each other, you have a serious problem. It’s not that you’re not interested in each other or that you don’t care about each other, you just haven’t been able to communicate your feelings and needs to each other.