A relationship is an investment, and for better or worse, it is a commitment. And the sooner one makes that commitment, the sooner one will be happy. So as they say, when you get married, you get married. When you have a relationship, you have a relationship. And the sooner they are both working in this marriage, the happier you will be.
To get to that point, people need to realize that the two of them, in their marriage, are a team. That means communication is a must, and that means that there is no excuse for not talking about stuff. As the saying goes, you can write the best love letter on a piece of paper, but unless you are in the same room, you can’t write a great love letter.
Yes, communication is the key to happiness. And we all know that love is the key to happiness. And yes, I know that it’s a bit complicated, but it’s pretty simple.
The only thing I can say is that it is best to have a couple conversations about what’s going on, and what you want to do, before you start having to talk about it constantly. Yes, it is easy to just wait until marriage to start talking about it, but you will find that sooner or later you’ll be getting married again and that will cause you to have some conflicts about things that you don’t want to talk about.
Yeah, marriage is the first thing that you should discuss with your partner. I hate to say it, but you really dont want to make it about sex and make him or her feel like something is wrong. But if you feel that you really have to start talking then no matter your age, your partner should be able to tell you what he/she wants to talk about.
The next thing you need to talk about is your job. It may sound like a really stupid thing to say, but for sure the most boring people on the planet like to talk about their jobs. If you want your boyfriend/girlfriend to love you with all his or her heart, you need to tell them about your job.
But there is a catch here. If you don’t have a job, your partner will probably be like, “I don’t know how to talk about my job?” and that’s when you have to start talking about it. This is also the best time to talk about your relationship because they will probably have a good idea of what you like to do, but they will also want to know if you like going out drinking and screwing around.
In a perfect world, this is all perfectly fine. In a real world, people are not perfect, so I can imagine that it wouldn’t always be as easy as that. However, in the case that you have your lover’s job, you need to make sure that the job is more than just an extra hobby. It needs to be a way for your lover to show you love and respect, to show you how much he cares and be a part of your life.
This is one of the most important questions I get asked about Love. It’s a big topic that I feel I have to address.
You can’t just have your lover do all of the work for you. You need to get into a relationship with your lover first and then you can make it a lot easier for him to do the work. You may also want to ask yourself what your lover wants from your marriage.