he doesn’t want a relationship, but it’s a relationship he’s willing to have regardless.
he says he doesnt want a relationship but acts like he does because he can’t help himself.
you act like you want a relationship but you dont need one.
For some people, relationships are like air. They say they dont want one, but they just know that they have to breathe in order to do anything else. That’s what makes relationships so hard. The problem, in my opinion, is that it’s not always what a person wants, it’s what they think they need.
I’ve been in relationships that lasted years, and its not always the person or the relationship that is the problem. The problem is when we feel that our relationships are simply a way to express ourselves, or just because our partners are going to be around forever. That doesn’t make relationships any less important, but it does make it hard. That’s why I think it’s so important to talk about your partner being in a relationship with you.
What I mean is if your partner says they don’t want a relationship, be honest, be open, and be honest. Talk about how they’re different from your friends or even your family. If they tell you they don’t want to be in a relationship because of a certain thing, ask what it is and why you should believe them.
After all, why would a guy who doesnt want to be in a relationship with you tell you they dont want to be with you? He may have just said it to get your attention.
I think it is easier to be open and honest and then just say it. But don’t be surprised if your partner says it as a joke or a jokey comment, or because they have some kind of reason for saying it.
And that’s how most people act as well. They say “no” to the “relationship” but then don’t say why they are rejecting it. I’ve had people tell me that they dont want to be in a relationship because of a certain thing, and then when I ask if it’s important for them to tell me it’s not, they just keep playing dumb.
I am not surprised that you were able to keep your mouth shut. Your partner might not have the same skills as you, but if they can keep a secret from you, you can also keep a secret from them. When you say no to someone it is because you dont want to be tied to that person. Maybe you don’t like that person or feel they have something to do with your life, but at the end of the day, you don’t know what that thing is.