It can be exhausting to be self-aware. It seems like every time I do something, I feel like I am on trial because I have to make sure everything I do is appropriate. I feel like people have to be so strict and judgmental about everything. There is a lot of pressure to not be likeable and just get along with everyone.
What I do when I am self-aware, is stop thinking about it and start focusing. I stop thinking about what I am doing right now and start thinking about what I want to be doing in the future. It can be exhausting trying to make people happy and not to be a jerk, because you can’t do it all at once. I find that doing this makes me happy, and it helps me to stay sane.
My goal is not to make people happy, but to make them happy enough to leave me alone. I know I have to be a bit different to be accepted by people, and I also know that I don’t want to make people unhappy because I am not happy. I want to be happy because it is what I am and I know it that is what I want to be.
So you want to be happy, but you don’t want to be a jerk? That’s a pretty weird way to live. I’m not sure what you mean by “it is what I am and I know it that is what I want to be.” Does it mean to be happy by being nice? Then you don’t like it when people are nice to you, you’re like a jerk.
I think this is a good way of looking at it. To be accepted by people. To not be a jerk. I would go one step farther and say that you should be happy if you can find someone who will be happy with the same things that you are. This may sound corny, but it’s not. It’s about finding someone who will accept you for who you are, and not try to change your personality to fit the mold of someone else’s expectations.
This may seem too simple to some, but it is the reason I don’t like being on Twitter. No one ever accepts me, or my opinions. They’re all made up as they go along. I want someone to take me seriously and not try to change me to fit their needs.
That seems like the hardest thing for me to do, I guess it really just boils down to being honest and willing to learn from the other person. It’s not about being someone you are not, its about being you. I am just who I am, no matter what people think of me. I want relationships to be the same way.
You don’t have to be “real” for someone to be interested in you. I am a real person, and being real just means you are not pretending. People can like you or hate you, or disagree with you in some way, and everyone is just a person with their own feelings and thoughts. I am who I am and people can like that or hate that.
The problem with relationships is that we tend to think that when something is wrong, we just ignore it, or that it’s just not worth it. But this isn’t the case. We have to deal with the bad things in life. We have to put ourselves in a position to deal with our feelings and thoughts. There is no point in having a relationship if you are not willing to deal with and process it.
There are things in life that we have to deal with, just like there are things that we need to deal with. There is no way we can just ignore them. We have to put in the work to deal with them. If we do not deal with them, then they take over our life and we are left wondering what is wrong with us.