So many people have extroverted personalities, but introverts tend to be more introverted, so being friends with introverts can be a great way to understand the differences between introverts and extroverts.
Of course it can be difficult to get beyond the surface layer or what you think you see. I’m an extrovert, but I’m also an introvert. So I can get very comfortable with a conversation with another introvert because I’m so comfortable with myself.
People who are introverted tend to be more social, but that doesn’t mean they’re not social. Introverts are social in the sense that they like to socialize, but they also like to make contact. There’s an art to both types of relationships, and I think that’s a good thing. Being friends with someone who doesn’t like to socialize is like being friends with a person who is uncomfortable with small talk.
introverts can be very comfortable with an introvert because they like to act like they have friends. So, if theyre an introvert, theyre probably friends with an extrovert.
We see it all the time in our lives. People get along with people. Its just a fact of human nature. Its just easier to be friends with someone you like, than being friends with someone for whom you dont like to be friends.
I know this is true for so many people and I know it was my experience at age 13. I once was in a relationship with a girl who was very reserved and quiet. She kept to herself and would not have tolerated any social interaction with the people around her. I think this is a very common characteristic of introverts. Introverts are not sociable, but they can be friends with an extrovert. The same goes for introverts who prefer to avoid social activities.
Introverts are not usually shy, but they are not used to interacting with other people. Social interactions are a part of our everyday life, but when we’re not used to them, they feel awkward, even scary. Introverts are not used to being around other people, and so they can get anxious, confused, and insecure. This is where extroverts come into play. The shy introvert can feel uncomfortable around a crowd, and the extrovert can feel comfortable around a crowd.
Extroverts and introverts tend to have their own unique set of preferences and traits. Introverts tend to be extroverts at heart, and extroverts tend to be introverts. When you look at extroverts in this way, you see that a lot of introverts are just extra people who are just happy that they are not shy. Sometimes they’re just happy that they are not a shy introvert.
When introverts are in a crowd, they find introversion to be a bit boring. That is, they don’t want to be alone. They want to be with people who have the same type of shyness, but are a little more social. So they might be in a crowd and a little bit shy and say, “I wonder if anyone wants to join me in a conversation.
It is really amazing how often people mistake this “not shy” introver with shy. People who are shy, introverts, and introspectives are really just the same type of person for the most part. In fact, there are a great many people who are introverts who are actually more socially adept than introverts.