“Self-awareness” is a tricky one. It is important to understand the difference between your “self” and your “other,” and how each of you has “things” that you need to get better at. But it can also be challenging to realize you’re in a relationship with someone you have just met.
We’ve all been there. Someone you meet a day or two into a relationship is quite different from someone you’ve known for years. In fact, a lot of our emotions and behaviors are shaped by the past, and it can be quite jarring to try and move on from someone we’ve known for so long.
It can be especially challenging for newlyweds to start out in a relationship that has been going for a while. It can be confusing if youve been with someone for a long, long time, and then suddenly you start to feel like youve known them for a short time, but youve never really understood them. Its hard to adjust to a new way of thinking and a new way of dealing with things.
It can be quite challenging. But you can take a break from that and think about how you are going to handle things once you’ve got back together with your partner. How will you approach the new relationship? Do you just make it work? There’s nothing wrong with making a new relationship work, but it can be a bit of a challenge if it’s a new relationship.
I know it can be challenging, but it can be good too. I think we all tend to make it work at a certain point. But just because it doesn’t work for you doesn’t mean it’ll work for anyone else. The only thing you can control is your own behavior and then you have to be aware of how you behave. So a bit of self-awareness is needed, but it’s not the end of the world if you make it work.
If you need a bit of help figuring this out, watch this video by the same person who did the video where I talk about my own relationship, and you will see just how easy it can be to end it.
I’ve been dating my best friend for two months.
The video above is the one that made me realize how much pressure I put on myself. I think a big part of that is that I really dont like myself very much. So just in case anyone is wondering how I feel about myself, I am really not good at it. I feel like its all I know how to do and I end up putting a lot of my life into it.
I’m not saying that to be dramatic. I’m not talking about my feelings toward my partner. I’m talking about how I feel that if a relationship is over, it’s over. If you’ve been with someone for a long time, you’re used to this kind of pressure and expectation from each other. And it’s not just about the expectation of your partner (although they may be the least of your worries).
Your partner, your family, friends, ex-partner, or ex-girlfriend. Is it possible that you are the only one who can understand and deal with this pressure? You are the only one who can experience it. The more you go through it, the more you’ll have to deal with it. So, in a lot of ways, it’s not you that causes the pressure, its them.
